
A lot of us carry that mentality into every facet of our lives, but we are rarely taught how to be taken care of. It is foreign to most career black women who spend their lives “handling it” to allow a man to take care of them.
Black women have the hardest time learning to be independent and dependent at the same time. On one hand, we don't want or need a man to do anything, but then we want to be taken care of emotionally.
But here’s a secret, most men want to take care of you. For them it’s their manly duty to treat a woman they like with...